Theres this concept ... well, it's something... It goes like this:
The pig and the chicken decide to have breakfast together...
The chicken says "Lets have bacon and eggs."
To which the pig replies "Oh sure. That takes commitment on my part... you're merely 'involved'.!"
The illustration being that some things need "chicken involvement" while others require "pig commitment".
Sorta like being an aunt or uncle versus being a mommy or a daddy... dig?